Dhvani Bhanushali and Aashim Gulati Talk Nepotism, Struggles, and Staying Grounded on In The Ring with Filmfare

Celebrated singer-actress Dhvani Bhanushali and renowned actor Aashim Gulati, the lead cast of Kahan Shuru Kahan Khatam, feature in the latest episode of In The Ring with Filmfare, streaming now on Filmfare’s YouTube channel. Hosted by Jitesh Pillai, Editor-in-Chief, Filmfare, this engaging talk show offers fans a glimpse into the lives and careers of some of the most sought-after talents in the film and OTT industries, all in front of a live audience that elevates the immersive experience.

In this exclusive interview, Dhvani Bhanushali and Aashim Gulati open up about their evolving careers in the entertainment industry. Dhvani gets candid about transitioning from a chart-topping singer to a promising actor, fulfilling a lifelong dream, while Aashim recounts the challenges he faced in his acting career. They further discuss their latest film Kahan Shuru Kahan Khatam, revealing insights about what sets it apart. The duo also dives into important conversations around patriarchy, anxiety, nepotism, and the pressures of the industry, giving fans a rare behind-the-scenes look at their journeys.

Dhvani speaks about the struggles of staying relevant in a world driven by social media, highlighting, "It's a lot of pressure on a human being, but at the end of the day, I feel like we chose this path. You have to be aware that putting yourself out there on social media has become a necessity for people to know you and your work. Without it, it’s hard to reach people."

Aashim shares his thoughts, adding, "Of course, it bothers me. I don't really get into the whole comment section too much, but there's always this feeling of being judged constantly. We’ve reached a point where everything is out there, and that’s exhausting. Social media is tricky because it’s easy to let it consume you. I honestly believe there should be a rehab for it!"

Both stars also underscore the importance of mental health. Dhvani remarks, “I’ve always had this idea of being a complete artist—singing, acting, and having it all together. But during the lockdown, I realized I needed to focus on self-love. It’s so important to not lose yourself in the noise around you." 

Aashim expresses, “I find great pleasure in getting lost behind characters because my own life seems boring compared to theirs. But the pressure to maintain a certain image is real. You have to be the best version of yourself at all times, the main focus should always be on your craft, your acting—everything else is a byproduct. But somehow, the byproduct has become the most important thing. People tend to forget that the focus should be on the work."

Discussing the nepotism debate in Bollywood, Aashim shares his belief in hard work and timing. He remarks, “I come from the school of thought where I believe in auditions. I love auditioning because it re-instills my belief in the craft. Whether or not you get the part, it’s a good practice. There’s timing to everything, and if something’s not meant for you, it won’t happen."

Dhvani opens up about her experience being overwhelmed with constant advice, saying, “I’ve received so much advice in life that at one point, I was like, ‘How will I find myself if I keep listening to everyone else?’ The best advice came from my dad, when he said, ‘Mat suno kisi ki’ (Don’t listen to anyone). It helped me trust myself more and stay grounded.”

Aashim also touches upon the impact of bullying during his school days and how acting became his “safe space.” He recalls, "I started doing theatre to escape the bullying. It became my safe place, where I could be someone else, and that's when I knew this was my calling. I find immense joy in playing different characters, but when I have to come out and be myself, it gets tiring."